a Jeannie
our Jeannie came into our lives ten years ago
she was my boss at the time
she was there to visit and give a helping hand or measured, timely advice with each of the babies
a model of quiet acceptance, kindness, humility, honesty, integrity, forgiveness, and compassion
a listener
giving much more than she receives
Jeannie’s strength is grounded in her Catholic faith
but when i think of Jeannie, the image is of Avalokitesvara, the thousand-armed bodhisattva, each hand holding a different gift for humanity
she has always had time for others despite having to raise four children on her own and work full-time
she has stayed in touch through changes of jobs, and there has always been a visit at Christmas with a gift of new clothes for each of the boys… the boys love wearing Jeannie’s new clothes on Christmas Day, it has become a tradition
Jeannie is like a village elder
however in a global village, Jeannie’s warm embrace is expansive
multitudes of individuals and families that she stays connected with, as little or as much as they need
there is emotional safety with Jeannie
but that’s not to say she is a push-over, she can be one tough old bird when crossed, but you always know she’s got your back
now a proud and devoted grandmother of one, I wondered whether we would see Jeannie this Christmas, we haven’t seen her at all this year
the phone rang yesterday afternoon, “I’m in the area, thought I’d drop in for a visit” in that familiar cheerful tone, there is a smile in her voice
Jeannie never forgets
December 23, 2010 at 1:27 pm
I’d love to be like that. Happy Holidays.
December 23, 2010 at 2:55 pm
We are blessed to have our Jeannie.
Thank you for visiting my blog, and sharing your insights.
Best Wishes for the Season